I want to do a freezer spell on my husband's anger & negativity. I don't want to get rid of him, I want to get rid of his bad emotions and behavior, so we have a chance of reconciling. Is it ok to do this? I feel that I am at my absolute wits end of him bullying me and lashing out at me for no reason. It has to stop, and I feel the need to do something drastic to save my marriage and family. This has been going on for about 7 years now. He used to be my prince charming before the bad behavior. Please help. I really need some suggestions. This marriage will end if I cannot get through to him.
Re: Freezer spell question By: Brysing Moderator / Adept
Post # 2 May 24, 2014
Although I do not believe in any God, nor that the Bible is the word of God! But I do read the Bible, and there is much wisdom in it.Such as the way your way your husband behaves, that should not, and cannot, be tolerated. "If thy right eye offend thee, pluck it out!"
So leave him! After a while he may come to his senses, and then you might be able to be together again in peace.
Leaving him is so much easier said than done. It's so complicated. For 9 years, we were so good together, so happy, got along so well with each other. If there's anyway to get that back, I'd sure like to try. This is so hard for me.
Okay I understand what your saying tge best way to deal with this is no spell but actually say tohim your leaving because of him being too him bullying you and then go to a friends house ore to a hotel for a few days and wait if he realizes his mistake he would want to fix it to get you back and so you just need to give him enough of an emotional shock it makes him fix his mistake by not doing so any more.
The most common/traditional way to work this would involve using tongue and putting your petition paper, or request, inside the tongue. Sew it up and then keep it in the freezer. If you can't tolerate the idea of that (understandable), you could use wetted paper towels as the container.
Something to keep in mind, however, is that things like this don't change someone's nature. If your husband is abusive, he needs psychological counseling, not magic, to change that. You can stop him from lashing out at you, but you won't change the part of him that's messed up.
I know this won't fix his psychological problems, but I do need some relief from the bullying, lashing out and verbal attacks. I'm hoping that if this works, and he calms down a bit, I can convince him to get the help that he needs. He wasn't always like this. For now, I must remain here, as my options are very limited. Thanks for the advice.