Ex told people I'm pagan

I need help.. My ex-girlfriend who I thought I could trust, told people that I'm a pagan. I really thought I could trust her at the time but I couldn't. I mean.. what did I expect? She told me we were going to stay friends but she won't respond to my texts at all. What should I do about this?

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Thank her and move forward with your wonderful life as a pagan .. theres nothing to be ashamed of!!! everything will work out just fine give it some time!

You have three options. Option one is to live openly and not care. Option two is to say she's a scorned ex spreading rumours about you and nothing else [aka deny everything] or option three move and change your name. [The last one is a joke, but if you want to go that far]

At your age it might seem as though the world is over, but its not. If your parents don't know you might consider telling them, but otherwise shrug it off.

I agree with cyress, so she told people about your religious choices so what, and if she did it to hurt you thanking her is more or less THE most painful(mentally and emotionally) thing you can do to her, and there is nothing she can do about it because, hey you did nothing to her.
If not she just did you a favor so you don`t have to be the one to tell them just explain if they are curious about it(which is much easier).
Or in other words there is nothing you should do about it.

Thank you guys. I've decided to just be open about it from now on.

I have given this advice to all my children as they were growing
up.
When a friend says bad things about you, it is because they feel that you have hurt them in some way. So, do nothing; say nothing. And in a couple of weeks, if you were real friends, you will be friends again. Even married couples have "fall outs"; and they may love each other very much!

so, there are planty of religions who cares if you belong to a less known one

it may work out for the better. Just smile and let it happen as shes currently hurt at the moment as you are also. Nothing to be ashamed of,

It will be ok :)

I'm pagan, it's nothing to be ashamed of. It's your belief why do you care what others believe. Be proud you are pagan. People can make fun of you all they want. Don't get ashamed about it.

One more point blackcat, I can't resist saying this. You have an ex-girlfriend. One? At your age I had dozens! They came and went like snow!