I believe that the curse was place originally on my grandmother. In each generation starting with her husband, someone has been murdered. Every offspring and their offspring lives are a mess. Every time one of them has began to experiance happiness something has destroyed that. It roadblock after roadblock. I need to break this, but I have no idea the curse used.
Here is something that may help if I remember right it's hoodoo. Right your family name one a peace of rice paper and go to a Catholic church put a donation in the donation box put the rice paper in the Holy water fountain they have and say blessed be aND that should do it. Most cases this should work. Oh one more thing if you don't believe it will work then don't was your time because if you don't believe it will not work
My grandmother was like that, she had six husband's and every single one of them died. 1 got hit by a car, 2 got a sickness, 3 got killed in a house robbery, 4 got killed by his mistresses husband, 5 got shot, and 6 died from heart failure.
If it's a curse that last generations... Does it affect certain people in your family?
And i mean it like this does it effect both genders or females? And people with certain attributes.
For my family the youngest daughter is affected (Luckily not me).
So I wnder if it's the same for you?
It applies to everyone. My grandfather was murdered in an insane asylum, my uncle by a drunk driver, my niece is still unknown who did it. Everyone else (Aunts, uncles, cousin)everyone decended from my grandmother, is either on drugs, divorced, major health issues etc. No matter how hard any of us try counseling, some church, on and on nothing works. It has become even more apparent to me as there is knew love in my life that is very powerful and everytime we start becoming close and working on anything major negative road blocks come up from outside forces.
While I haven't heard of a multi-generational curse, I suggest starting with a divination to see what that matter is. Employing cleansing and banishings of negative energy can't hurt and can be done in multiple ways.
Lesser Banishing Ritual of the Pentacle :
http://hermetic.com/osiris/nbrp.htm
Cleansing/Banishing Floor Wash :
http://www.luckymojo.com/baths.html#floorwashes
(You can use black salt for a banishing wash)
Keeping cleansed and protected are very important things for those who might be under attack. If you do discover you are under magical fire you can reverse, uncross, or do any number of things in any number of ways. It really should be tailored to your situation.