I feel really sad today i hope someone can reply, i started my honey jar 2 weeks ago to sweet up this guy but it seems that he is busy at all times and he doesnt text me or even call, today i saw him and he reject me saying that he was busy, i need to charge/ speed up my jar? please help me, i burn red candles a least 3 times a week, inside the jar there are picture, his handwritten signature in a piece of paper, a cinammon stick, brown sugar my petition to love me and the honey what else can i do to speed the process, i need support i feel sad.....
Perhaps put something from you in there as well, such as a piece of hair, or a little note. Place the jar in your windowsill to charge it with sunlight during the day and moonlight at night. Keeping good intentions and beliefs towards the honey jar should improve its ability. Good luck!
Sometimes spell don't work if while casting you had some doubts, or was interrupted or in deep subconscious level you don't want it. Even emotions as anger, sadness, despair - will be in a way.
If you want to charge it - charge it with good, happy energy. Not your sadness.
These things take time. He could be shy, or really busy or possibly not interested for the time being. Adding a touch of yourself to the spell is a good idea. I would also try using yellow candles rather than red, unless you know him well. After all being friendly with someone is one of the best ways to start things off.
Re: is my honey jar working By: kts Moderator / Adept
Post # 6 Mar 12, 2015
You may want to consider charging the jar with sunlight if you have not done so already. Placing the jar in direct sunlight will fill it with more heat/energy than a candle burning on top of it for the same amount of time. I would try this slowly by charging the jar for only a few hours at a time over several days. Keep in mind that slow and steady foundations last longer than foundations that are rushed. Bee sure to follow up with sweet communication when you get the chance. Send him a text wishing him a wonderful day with no expectation of him o message you back. Always remain in a good mood about him as well. Being upset cause he hasn't called or is busy detracts from the energy you are trying to create with the jar.
Most people use telepathy these days & are often aware of some things even through a distance & not everyone favours love spells & magic. We really do live live in a very modern world & not everyone has caught up with these traditions.
Second of all, there is something called 'free will & free choice'. It is sometimes hurtful & as much as we sometimes want wonderful things to happen for us with the wonderful people we really like. It doesn't always work that way. And I'm not trying to make you feel any worse, it's just the way it is. Does he know that you like him & do you think he likes you too?
Do you feed your love with love? Sometimes doing things with love & adding the word 'love' to all that you do, may just half your efforts. Have you tried adding the word 'love' to all that you do? Feeling the 'love' is essential.
Have you learnt how to activate your chakra? Activating the base & heart chakra, are amazing together.
Putting something of yours inside the honey jar, even a strand of hair, would have been a good idea. Honey jars take their time to work also. Although I might also add, that honey jars are made to sweeten up a persons already existing feelings towards the other. If the intended does not feel the same way about you as you do of him, then I think a honey jar won't do much.
Ok, my first Tips/ spells. If with the honey did not work try sugar cane syrup. Candle red is fine. Add oils such ass Adam & Eve. Attraction. Also ADD a spirit or Few to aid you. Such ass St Clara to clear his/her path/mind to you. More information if you need let me know. Also baths you can do.
I'd say it's time to try a new work. Honey jars were made up by catherine yrwonde and aren't the answer to everything. Try a moving candle spell. There are way stronger spells for love, but I save those for my clients lol
