Everytime I try to call my guide I just end up crying for hours becausr I feel so alone,ignored,confused,and hated. I never get anything helpful out of it I feel this so useless and I feel so vaunrable. I think my guide either hates me or just doesnt care.
And uh , how long do you wait for this guide ? If you end up crying for hours, how many were spent 'waiting' ? A guide does not come 'immediately' , they are like all spiritual beings they need some time to 'get here'. If you've been practicing for over a year, what have you been doing that all of sudden you need a guide ?
well, its a guide on the first place.. have you ever wonder why this guide your talking about is not showing to you? it could be a message.. it's a guide anyway.. ;)
Re: My spirit guide hate me. By: spiritwolf / Knowledgeable
Post # 4 May 14, 2012
it is only when the soul cries out that spirit steps in( silver birch).
by the sounds of it your guide is unable to get through to you, negativity or grief can block this as we cloud our auric field i would clear your mind go sit in the garden and relax, take a few deep breaths and gently ask for your spirit guide to step forward and introduce themselves to you, listen for the first name that pops in to your mind, then say the name and ask for confirmation, listen for the yes or no that comes to though, you may even get a mental image in your minds eye.
if you still have problems then feel free to mail me and i will talk you through it
Re: My spirit guide hate me. By: Curiousgirl / Beginner
Post # 5 May 14, 2012
hmm, well in my experience, my spirit guide ignores me most of the time, except when Im really in trouble. Then I get a stern talking-to.
Have you tried a spell to evoke your spirit guide? with meditation and visualisation?
Re: My spirit guide hate me. By: Webwaver / Knowledgeable
Post # 6 May 14, 2012
Arrae i agree with what spiritwolf stated above .There is a reason why we do meditation and relaxation before communicating with our spirits guides .When we do that our energy vibration rises and our energy clears (as spirit mentioned )that allows us to be more aware of them and all what they have to say .Otherwise that may restrict the connection .
Please try to do some healing on your emotions ,seems like to me that you naturally tend to think that you are ignored and hated .
When we think about negative things all the time we attract negative things too .Try to control your emotions more and to have more positive approach toward the process .
Spiritwolf that is so generous and nice of you to offer help if she is still stuck in there after time .:)
Curious girl our guides are not our babysitters ,they will leave you sometimes to do mistakes so you can learn .No guide will stick around on daily basics telling you what to do and what not to do .Spirit guides wants us strong and indipendant ,hence they come when we have gotten ourselves in total mess and we really need some extra help .We learn through bad experiences too not only through good ones .If there is something which stopps you to do mistakes you will not learn that much .Also you will start counting on the guide to do decisions instead of you which will make your will weak and therefore your magic .
Spirit guides are with they day you are born the day grow old. They to help guide you in your life time. But most of the time spirit guides only come to you in your time of need. They help you with many things. You just have to pay attention to what signs they may be giving you in life.
But do not worry your spirit guide will never hate you nor ignore you. They will always be there for you.