I live w my boyfriend and 4 adult kids, and my 2 minor kids. My oldest daughter has 15 mo old twins she had to move back in w us w her kids in November. She and my bf do not get along. He has tried very hard and at every opportunity to be kind helpful and friendly to her, but she always found a way to insult hurt or cut him down. Bc of the babies, he doesn't want to make her leave, but he cannot stand the disrespect any longer. So it came to light that she and a neighbor were discussing my bf, and one of them accused him of several outreagious, crazy, reputation destroying things. Both my daughter & the neighbor both deny doing it and say the other one said it.
There a several more problems w her, too many to list...the problem is that my bf is ready to confront her and I want to know if there is a STRONG FAST spell that will ensure (as best as possible) cooler heads will prevail, and every ones hearts and ears are open and receptive and that the discussion will go well and the desired result, peace in my home, will be reached w/o screaming hurt feelings etc. Can anyone please please help me
Firstly, magic is not spells. Some people choose to cast a spell as an attempt at doing magic. One [real] spell is not more or less powerful than any other; it is always dependent upon the individual.
Secondly, there is no spell that will keep someone else's temper in check. But there may be ways to respond to the person's outbursts to not exacerbate the situation. Beyond that, her behavior is her own decision.
Magic is rarely a one-shot deal when it comes to changing aspects of a person. It is a process, and a very deliberate one. And the person must actually desire the change they are attempting to affect.
All that said, others may chime in with suggestions such as calming herbs in various ways, such as burning a [high quality] lavender scented candle [with actual essential oils and not just something that smells like lavender] , herbal sachets, and other similar and differing ideas. Also, appealing to whatever deities you may follow is an option. But remember: Nothing will force her to change her ways.
Lol if u were here for ur "slice of tension".... U would want something very fast too!!! But I did figure out what to do...I centered myself and demanded all negative energies would leave and called in only positive and asked God to bless and be apart of the discussion... And we did quite well. My bf was on the phone not in the room w me & my daughter, and that may hv been best. So we did come to some compromises, but there's still alot on the table...baby steps...
Do not worry. help is needed for you.
if there is violence in your house get help IMMEDIATLY!!
try a peace spell or if it does not work call the proper athorities immediatly!
