Get a ex boyfriend back

Guys I need your help. i want my ex back. My love to him is very strong and I'm thinking about him all day and all night. I also spoke to him why did he left me but he's not answering and around me he's kinda shy and don't even looks at me. I really need your help. I did a spell to get over him but it doesn't work so I think he's my soulmate...

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In my honest opinion, i don't think you should cast such a spell. It's like.. implant the idea on him that he loves or wants to be with you when he probably doesn't.. I know it hurts alot specially if your love for him is really strong. I don't know, try to be and talk with him, that's really what you should do. And if it doesn't go anywhere well.. Then you'll find another.

Hello,

Well, I absolutely agree with MoonCurses post. In fact, I dont think casting a love spell over someone you love would be such a good idea, honestly. It might be worse for you and for him. Think about it. If you love him, do you think casting a love spell over him to try to get him back would be better? Also, if you love him so much, I think you should do the best for him. In my opinion, this is not the right way to do such things. It is not even true love trying to get him back by force!

So, again, think about this, and try to talk to him, ask him why he doesnt want to be with you anymore... Something could be useful, or may help with this problem, but I think a love spell couldnt help too much in this case.

Hope this helped. Good luck!

Natalia, he chose to leave you. There is a reason he did so. If you did successfully draw him back into a relationship with you, he would be miserable for having to deal with whatever reasons he left in the first place.

Sometimes it is better to accept, let go, and continue to better yourself as a person.

Shub, you write as though you don't think anyone else has been through a rough break-up.

Many of us have! Some of us have been through several.
In no way does not being the person who started this thread diminish any advice of the people who have been through it before.

It's certainly not easy, especially if the relationship had been serious. But again that changes nothing of reality!

You say you use the Law of Attraction to keep your rocky relationship together. But you keep having serious fights? You say something you 'shouldn't?' How is that possibly a good thing? One of you I constantly miserable! Either you have to constantly censor yourself to not offend the other, or the other he to live with intolerable things.

That is simply not healthy!

I have been through a similar relationship. We had fights. She wanted to change basically everything about me, from what clothes I wore to the music I liked, the sports teams I followed, and so very much more. But I kept going back for about five years. Every time we had a falling out, I was devistated. Then finally I realized why I had been so unhappy: we were a bad match.

So I left, moved on, and developed myself. I became a better person. Yes: she was right about some things. But that doesn't mean I should have remained with her and stayed unhappy.

And sometimes something which seems good must be let go.

you could try a spell [honey jar probably would work] but if you don't want a repeat you need to work at it. not just your relationship, but yourself. there's a reason he left [maybe he just wasn't happy in the end, it happens, or maybe it was something he told you about] whatever the case you should use this break-up as a blessing. it hurts, but you can do some great self improvement which will be beneficial in the long run even if he doesn't return to you. be aware should you cast a spell to drag him back, things will more than likely end the same if you don't solve the issue. [and even then, there might not be one. sometimes people drift apart.]

I am in the same predicament and all the posts I read hear make sense although I don't want to hear it either. I am told they never come back and I have not accepted that yet. I've had many heartaches too, but never ever as bad as this. I am guessing the greater the lover the greater the pain. I didn't see this level of hurt coming, and its been 8+ months. ouch.