A little confusion

I found a spell that is supposed to draw new friends near but I've become a little confused.

Here is the spell:

After invoking whatever gods you are attuned with, light some appropriate incense for the spell. Use the incense to sage the pendant/ring to make sure it has no other energy in it.

Now hold the candle and send positive energy into it. Breathe in. Then when you breathe out send that surge of energy into the candle. Do this several times till you feel the candle radiating and pulsing with light. When done chant:

"May the power I send into this candle bring good people my way and into my life let these positive people stay."

Place the candle down and light it.

Now take up the ring or pendant. It should be on a chain. Hold the ring/pendant tight in your hand and meditate for a minute on the idea of new friends coming into your life. Now hold the chain on one end so the pendant/ring is hanging from the chain, not in your hand. Hold it near the flame (not to close) Slowly start to circle the candle with the pendant 3 times and chant:

"1, 2, 3, Draw new friends close to me."

Circle the candle with the pendant 3 more times and chant:

"4, 5, 6, new friends to me will now be fixed."

Circle the candle with the pendant 3 more times and chant:

"7, 8, 9, new friends to me now be mine."

Do this "encircling" over 9 times in total.

When done hold the ring/pendant in your hand and send some more "friend drawing" energy into it. You may even use this time to ask the gods to help as well.

Put the jewelry on and wear it proudly. You may leave the candle burning or blow it out as you wish. Then hit the streets for the day and see who crosses your path.

In using this spell, I have discovered it works rather fast. Though at first all you may get is just friendly smiles, greetings and people complimenting you one your clothes or something to that effect. But that's where a lot of friendships start. I have discovered this works best on rings and pendants more than talismans and amulets. You may find otherwise.


I have two problems:

The first is invoking a god which I am attuned with. I am christian and I believe in God and i think that invoking another god is going against my faith. Do I pray to God before this spell? What do I do?

Second, the spell says 'sage the necklace'. Is there anyway to cleannse the necklace without having to use sage? Because I can't really afford to start buying ingredients at this time.

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For any spell it is best to write it yourself, if you write the spell yourself, you won't need to include any ingredients, although cleansing any items you choose to use is always a good idea.

I know writing my own spell is the best idea but i always feel doubt when it comes to doing so.

How would I cleanse something?

You can cleanse things with sage smoke, smoke in general, moonlight, sunlight, running water, salt water, burying in the Earth.

But not all forms of cleansing are recommended for everything, for example, the crystal malachite cannot be cleansed in water, and salt water can corrode some metals.

What if I wanted to cleanse a neaklace? What would you recommend for that?

I use incense smoke to cleanse my items, incense is super cheap to buy and I personally use jasmine because the smell reminds me of happier times
so i feel the energy shift and i add that intention to all my items i use

Is there a technique to smoking an item? Like an instruction (list?) for example.

It can simply be done by passing the object through the smoke, visualizing the negativity or added energy being taken away by the smoke, at least that is how I do it.

Okay. And what would be the best incense to use?

Thank you all for your help and input far.

You can buy sage incense, personally my favourite, because it encorporate the sage aspect of cleansing into an incense, so you don't have the cost of buying or making sage sticks. But in reality any incense could be used, especially if the herb has cleansing properties, or you like the smell.