Good evening lovelies!

My husband and I have hit a rather rough patch. I was wondering if anyone had any suggestions for me to try as far as reconciliation,stop the bickering, make him come home, help our relationship get better and him come home? Any suggestions would be gratefully appreciated! I'm ears! Thank you all so much!

BluEyedMrsR

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Magic isn't very effective with resolving relationship problems. That is something you two must work out. Ever considered couple counseling?

"make him come home" If he wants to come home he will on his own accord, forcing his free will probably isn't the best idea.

If you really love him, then sit down with him and talk to him. As suggested above maybe invest in couples counseling.

I personally like to do some candle magick using a pink candle and involve my husband in it with me.

Honey jar spell could sweeten the relationship you have with him, but it wont take away his free will if he does not want to come back. I agree with the other comments seek couple counselling, it might help.

Goodluck,

He keeps in regular contact with me. Calls, texts, visits, etc. He tells me he wants us to work out, work on our relationship, I've asked him if he wants to divorce and he told me no he doesn't want to lose me, etc. I would never try and mess with free will to make him come home if he doesn't. Maybe just make him miss me a little more or something like that.

well that's a good sign at least, perhaps speak to a marriage counsellor to work through these issues. personally i wouldn't cast a love spell over him because it might upset him if he feels manipulated by you as a result of the spell. if he's open to magick as well, suggest a spell you do together to strengthen passion or your relationship. i know if some love potions you could try [they're essentially smoothies but made with ingredients with love energies] they're best made together however as it adds to the energy.

right now it might be best you spend time apart but keep in contact, and speak to a professional together to work through everything. best of luck to you two.

There are quite a few different things you can try. For one vanilla is said to help ease agression. It is also an aphrodesiac.

For issues with bickering, therapists would suggest to "pick your battles wisely", meaning to let go of the little things that are upsetting.

Honey jar spells help a lot with sweetening a relationship.

You could try to force his hand by using bindings and similar sympathetic magic but that often leads to future difficulty. As others have suggested, counciling or couples counciling may help. Try to keep a positive mindset when thinking about your relationship. As my mother used to say "thoughts are things". We don't always realize how strongly our attitued or thoughts on something is effecting us ;)

Love, light and blessings

~Ere