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So guys, I've got a bit of a problem. I'm 18 and I've known my best friend since kindergarten; we still visit each other for a chat, play some video games, etc., but recently when I go round his place his mom has been getting a bit...friendly with me, if you know what I mean.
She seems to give me the look, and when I sit on the couch she sits next to me, but sits a bit too close than you'd expect.
My question is, should I say anything? Or do anything? Would this ruin my friendship, or insult her?
She's a single mom, and only 35, but I really don't knwo what to do.
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Re: Should I?
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Post # 2
Geez thats an akward thing...
Sorry have no expirience in this cant help...
Btw why dont u call ur friend to ur place instead of going there...
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Post # 3
It's not that I don't like it, she is a very attractive woman, but I don't know if i should make a move or not.
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Post # 4
IMO: specify that "I don't mean to insult you, and I truly don't want to ruin my friendship with your daughter, but I don't feel like my personal space is being respected." Simple enough...
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Run away from her! (From the mom...)
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Re: Should I?
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Post # 6
Oh. You WANT to make a move?
Hmm... just my opinion (again) but, the Bro Code article #89 The Mom of a Bro is always off limits (but the step-mom of a bro is fair game, if she initiates it and/or is wearing at least one article of leopard print clothing.) And I think that's very sensible. Even though even step-moms can be risky and fraught with complications, so I wouldn't tap that either but that's just me.
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Post # 7
alone there are kids here u know...
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Post # 8
alone, I had this problem once. my advice to you is just go for it. return her actions, use some excuse to get her round your house alone, do it all.

post pics if you get anywhere with her ;)
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Post # 9
If you do something you would defenetly ruin the friendship. I think you should talk to her and then decide.
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Post # 10
Ew. Onless u want to have kids and ruin ur friendshipp with ur friend, dont do it.
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