Hello. I would like to make a honey jar for attracting back my crush. We used to flirt but things went wrong because he didn't tell me he had a gf and when she found out, he stopped talking to me.
I have some questions before I start.
1.Do I have to let the candle burn until the end each time I have to light a candle? Can I blow the candle? I don't like the idea of using my fingers to do it.
2. Is it a good petition request : desire only me be my boyfriend. Or should I make it even shorter?
3. Do I need to do another honey jar spell to make him talk to me?
4. The only personal concerns I have of him are a business card he gave me and lots of his photos. Are they enough?
5. I could fill it up with lots of my personal concerns. However, my personal concerns and his personal concerns do they have to be balanced in the jar?
6. I have an empty jar that had pickles. I washed it. Is it alright to use it or is it better to use a jar that had something sugary?
7. What are the herbs that I need to use in my case? I want peace after the argument we had, to start talking again, I want him to ask me out and I want him to want me as his girlfriend.
8 I have also bought a candle that is one of those in the glass container and they are for making him come to me. Can I do this spell at the same time?
Can I remove some wax off the jar so I won't end up setting up the house on fire (almost did it last time I used a candle) ? Do I have to let the candle burn until it blows off on its own?
1.Do I have to let the candle burn until the end each time I have to light a candle? Can I blow the candle? I don't like the idea of using my fingers to do it. You can blow it out it should be fine.
2. Is it a good petition request : desire only me be my boyfriend. Or should I make it even shorter? You can make it however long or short you want, I feel like the longer the better though.
3. Do I need to do another honey jar spell to make him talk to me? You don't have to, just know you have to give it time, Honey Jars take a while, they are slow.
4. The only personal concerns I have of him are a business card he gave me and lots of his photos. Are they enough? Of course! Pictures are perfect, you could use chapstick for male and lipstick for yourself or a female.
5. I could fill it up with lots of my personal concerns. However, my personal concerns and his personal concerns do they have to be balanced in the jar? I wouldn't think so, fill it with what you believe is enough.
6. I have an empty jar that had pickles. I washed it. Is it alright to use it or is it better to use a jar that had something sugary? I would use a canning jar, like a jelly jar, it comes with a lid and they are clean and have nothing inside them. If you dont want to then I would use a jar that had something sugary. You could bless it with Aphrodites blessing since she loves offerings of things that are sweet.
7. What are the herbs that I need to use in my case? I want peace after the argument we had, to start talking again, I want him to ask me out and I want him to want me as his girlfriend. Rose petals, cinnamon stick, Lavander, or vanilla
8. I have also bought a candle that is one of those in the glass container and they are for making him come to me. Can I do this spell at the same time? Sure, if you want too.
9. Olive oil good enough as anointing oil? I would think so, olive oil is an execellent oil.
10. Can I remove some wax off the jar so I won't end up setting up the house on fire (almost did it last time I used a candle) ? Do I have to let the candle burn until it blows off on its own? No, blow the candle out. Tilt the candle carefully and let the wax to slowly drip onto the lid of the jar. The reason for this is because you are sealing the spell inside the honey jar. (This is what I believe)
