Hi everyone. My best friend just got her heart demolished. She recently found her inner power. She wants revenge but I have no clue where to start. I hate to see her in pain since she is in my coven outside of SoM. Any suggestions?
Just let it go no point to holding onto what happened eventually all the bad things he did will nip him in the butt. If she is experienced then the only spell I could think of is a voodoo doll jar spell but you should put a death spell (not a actual make her dead spell) on her to make her feelings go away.
I have been trying to help her but even after hurting her...she is hell bent to try to get him back. I have tried several of the end emotional ties but she put a spell of protection on herself. We do it every new and full moon so the others in our coven (outside of SoM) spells don't accident my or purposely hurt each other. So we won't accident my hurt each other. She won't listen to reason so anything to ruin his live will do.
Maybe ask her what she hopes will happen to him.The best spells are those you create yourself. Get creative with it. Thinking about all of it might bring her some satisfaction and ultimately help her to move past it. There are a couple different types you could do.
A hex is a smaller scale one you might try. This is what I would recommend, honestly. It doesn't take a ton of energy, and it might kind of help to alleviate some of what she's feeling. The consequences if miscast are minimal and the effects of the negative energy put into it shouldn't linger too much because it's such a small spell. If you think she might be able to cast it and move forward, this is the way to go.
A curse is more serious. A curse takes a lot of energy, androutine maintenance usually. This is the one where it starts to become an unhealthy level of dwelling. It is more powerful and requires a lot more from the caster, so it makes sense that if it is cast carelessly, it's consequences can be pretty bad. That being said, the more dangerous part of it is what you get from it even if it is cast correctly and with care. The amount of negative energy required to cast it, not to mention the routine of maintaining it to keep it going, isn't going to sit well in her space. If she chooses to go this route, it would be wise to perform a cleansing afterward and perhaps some meditation as a form of inner cleansing as well.
The thing about curses is the way they have to be kept up because all energy fades after a time, but curses are usually intended to be long-term. Even if it is cast with caution, and she cleanses the space afterward, the amount of time she puts into thinking on this is not necessarily going to be good for her mental health.
But I'm not here to judge, and I don't know what this guy did that she wants to hurt him so badly. Honestly, it sounds like she's really going through some stuff, so I would advise that you be there for her as much as you can because she probably needs you. But if she chooses to cast a curse, she may end up needing you more.
That kind of dedication and ruminating on negative feelings can really change a person, and it can be hard to get out of feeling like that without the help of someone really close. At the same time, that may be something she feels she needs to face and experience, so it's up to her.
Best of luck to you both, and I hope that she does find the strength to move forward from this and let it go.
