Hello everyone, I'm new here. I suspect I've come here like many do; I'm looking for help in love. There is a girl I've met that I'm quite enamored with. While she does have quite a physical attraction to me, she is unsure of proceeding with a romantic relationship due to her going back to school after the summer in another state, and due to having gotten out of a relationship like a month ago that she rushed into.
I would like to find a love spell that actually works to bring us together into an actual romantic relationship with one another. I know this may not be agreed by everyone, but I've learned from my past that true love is found when one simply, truly accepts another. Letting down the walls so to speak, and truly letting another person's soul flow over and through your own. Similarity, interests, even compatibility I'm certain play a much smaller role than 'radical acceptance,' as it were.
Does anyone know - or even can perform a spell for me - that can truly do this? That has actually worked. I'm very new to magic, and the few times I've visited this site in the past to look up spells, I unsuccessfully cast them. This girl, I'd really, truly like to have things go differently with. I could honestly use any help from any of you, but I'm really looking for some solid, effective and experienced help here. This means very much to me.
Yeah a love binding spell can bring you together but chances are it would mess her up in some way. She could possibly want to change schools or not go back in order to be with you.
Love spells can have all sorts of negative consequences.
On the other person, they can inspire infatuation, leading to a relationship, only to later realize there's nothing really there in the first place, followed by a painful breakup for both parties. Additionally, if the spell is especially successful, the target can find themselves miserably trapped in a relationship they can't seem to let go for some reason, with someone they can't really figure out why they feel so strongly, despite being so unhappy with them.
For the person who does the spell, things can backfire. The biggest risk in my opinion is that a love spell may result in more obsession over the intended target, without actually affecting the intended target. This is the simplest form of backfire of a love spell. In stead of inspiring positive feelings from the target towards the caster, the person who cast the spell falls ever deeper into their fantasies and desires for the other person, and the obsession becomes constant thought and the primary driving force in that person's life.
Another common backfire is that the target has the opposite results as what is intended, and is suddenly repulsed by the person who cast the spell. This can also happen to the person who cast the spell: After the working, their desire for the other person wanes considerably. This can be further compounded by a successful spell, resulting in a sudden interest from the target, while the caster sharply loses interest.
As for affecting both, another risk is binding people together. The best example of this I've encountered is someone who bound themselves with their intended love, such that they found themselves together often. It worked! They developed a relationship which grew into romance, and even living together. But their inconsolable differences ended things harshly, and they both had contempt for each other afterwards. Except the binding spell remained in effect, and despite both working and living far apart from each other (like opposite ends of town, with completely separate lives, not several states away), they continued to encounter each other regularly. Life dealt odd circumstances to break their routines and habits, to coincidentally put them at the same places all the time. It was extremely difficult to break this pattern.
I could go on about breaking free will, trapping people in situatios they don't really want, and more. But I think I've covered some pretty important things above.
