Hi I've never cast any spells before. So wondering if there was one to maybe help my situation. I'm in a polyamorous relationship with my ex fiance. I'm not poly and just in this for her. I want to know if there is a way to end their relationship but keep ours. They fight all the time and she always brings up how if they break up we won't change. He also recently just started dating a new girl as well. I was wondering if there is a spell to split her from and just be with my ex fiance.
Not that it's any of my business, but why are you in a polyamorous relationship but not? I have plenty of poly friends, and if this wasn't a mutual decision you're both in agreement on, it's not a healthy polyamorous relationship. It does vary on the type of relationship, but everyone should have an equal say and if someone isn't comfortable with the relationship, you should speak up. This might be her and this other person, but you're all in a relationship, so you should be free to voice your concerns about their unit. If not, it doesn't sound like a poly relationship but an excuse to cheat [sorry, but a lot of people go into polyamorous relationships in the hopes to date someone else while not being a cheater or breaking up with the first person and that's not polyamory]
Anyway, that aside, you could try a breakup spell. Carve her full name on one candle and the partners full name on the other candle to specify which couple you are breaking up [assuming you're doing a candle spell, you could use a photo of them, or simply write their names on a piece of paper] Just focus on them and that should direct the spell towards their relationship. However, this isn't a 100% guarantee, sometimes lingering energy from the spell could bring things to the surface you're avoiding in your own relationship.
I agree with the previous reply. If you dislike your partner being involved with someone else you probably should be in a polyamorous relationship in the first place.
However, if you must try magic, I suggest something like cord-cutting can help. Have two candles (or any other objects) that represent the two people involved, tie a string in between them to represent their bond. Cut the rope to sever their relationship.
I highly recommend you to communicate with your ex fiance. It sounds like she's just keeping you around as a second option. A bitter pill to swallow but if she wants to keep her options open and you want an exclusive relationship, then you two aren't a good match for each other. Consider the possibility that you deserve someone who is committed to you.
