Out-of-reality friendship

I want to find an intelligent creature, a soul, which I would be able to communicate with, without limits of reality, with direct energy interchange. To start a friendship. If possible, to move in that creature's world. In exchange for the care, attention and patronage I want to offer myself entirely, my skills and abilities. I don't know whether it's useful in other world, but I can cook meat, I can make amazing potato dishes, with little help I can learn to cut fish and cook it. I can also do programming in multiple programming languages. Generally I'm ready to help in any way possible.

I'm not strong in magic, I read Castaneda, Monroe, Raduga, Zeland, but I couldn't extract any practical outcome out of it, couldn't learn to sleep and see dreams, to travel out of body and etc., so I ask for detailed practical advice.

Thanks for understanding and thank you in advance for providing any useful practical information.

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You are trying to embark on a journey without any self-knowledge, self-esteem or any spiritual knowledge which is not recommended at all. You are wide open to spiritual and physical exploitation for both spiritual world and physical world due to sense of loneliness. You need to work on those things or you will might end up in very bad circumstances.

You also seem to have set some unrealistic goals for both yourself and the being you are wanting to communicate with. Reality is a subjective in many ways even for humans, who have a physical body and a physical world to inhabit. Your reality is dictated by your state of consciousness and awareness. Every state of existing for humans and 99 per cent of all spiritual beings is limited by their awareness and nature of being. The only being I have ever met existing out of this limit is usually experienced as a bright light without beginning and end. In way it also has some limit though the very act of creating and permeating everything else and being one with it. However, you cannot really experience communication with this being or any spirit without them jumping through multiple hoops and loosing lost of energy in the process or you must meet them in the middle with awareness expansion.

I would reexamine your motives to do so as it is does not come from place of inner power and knowledge. In the spiritual world alike attracts alike. Thus, lower lever of awareness attracts exploiters and similar in level of awareness beings. The most dangerous thing you can ever do is to journey in any way spiritually not having strong sense of self and worth. I do not mean strong sense of self in terms of the ego of the mind. The ego of the mind is not the same as having strong spiritual being or essence. Moreover, experiencing oneness with spirits leads to Ego dissolvement and self loss, if you do not have strong spiritual essence or presence. Eventually your will to exist gets stripped away and consumed, until there is nothing left of anything you ever were or will be. This is exactly also how people get brainwashed slowly but surely as any sense of self-identity and willpower to exist independent is taken from them.

You have too many attachments to societal expectation to let go. Additionally, you cannot just leave your physical body while still alive and conveniently move to leave to another world as a form of escapism. If you are to help someone help yourself by loving yourself and growing spiritually. You can benefit from loving kindness to oneself meditation to heal the damage these people have done to you and to prevent the spiritual world doing so. Remember like any other creation you have unique spiritual beauty and worth. You just need to find it and share it with other other loving physical and not physical beings. Know your true worth and essence and spiritual self first.

I have not read Monroe, Raduga or Zeland, but I have read Carlos Castaneda. You should understand that his books and teaching are within the realm of fiction and are based on just few genuine and original indigenous practices and believes. He used his anthropological knowledge to create a cult by exploiting the vulnerability of women and people to make money and boost his human ego and power over others. As a result, 5 of his close inner circle "witches" vanished after his death in the Dead Valley. It is believed all 5 died in the desert due to either specifically instructed to die there by him or being brainwashed to believe they would die anyway after his death in order to reach some spiritual goal. Only the bones of one was ever found and other four are missing and presumed dead. Beware of egoistic, narcissistic spiritual teachers who got involved in spiritually only to use and abuse vulnerable and traumatised people seeking meaningful human interaction and spiritual awareness.

Power without self-knowledge is destructive on all levels. People embarking on spiritual journeys need to purify themselves in physical, mental and emotional way or they will only find challengers and exploiters. Any forms of attachment is weakness ripe to be exploited by any being perpetuating the cycle of suffering. You are truly only free beyond any attachment and just existing content of who you truly are as a being beholding the beauty of both creation and the Creator and embracing all painful lessons learnt on the way.

Start true loving friendship and relation with oneself and then expand your awareness towards other beings. Question the motives of everything and everyone. Spiritual slavery is not the road to freedom and wisdom.